Dear Navigator Friends

This web page is dedicated to all parents who have lost one or more children, a fairly common situation, even if less than in the past centuries. The culture of comfort, fed from commercials on TVs, showing families in excellent health with their blond-hair and blue-eyed healthy
children, is far from the reality of parents in our situation.
There seems to be no adjective that defines our state of being. The ones who have lost their parents are orphans. The ones who have lost a spouse are widows and widowers. But parents who have lost a child seem to be eccentric and aren't even deserving of a word quoted in the dictionary.......

Normally we think of the parents dying before their children; unfortunately, reality is not always framed in mental schemes. Therefore I have created this term to define our sad condition in a word: "AMPUTATED."
AMPUTATED because the child we have lost is a part of ourselves that disappeared; AMPUTATED because in the walk of life, we will always be a footstep back in regards to those who have children,AMPUTATED because....

STOP!!!

You can go on to find other definitions if you want to continue to mourn.
This page has been written from one just like you and from whomever will
collaborate so we can dry our tears and REACT!!
Please know that our children have not departed. (I won't ever use the word
"dead" or "deceased" without good reason). God knows the WHY and He will
explain this to us when we are before Him ready to join our children.
Our children must continue to grow spiritually and move ahead in their
walk. They do not want to see our tears and pain. To do this only holds
them back in this world. The best thing we can do to honor their memory is
to devote ourselves to helping others who are suffering as we have
suffered. It is not necessary to missionary in distant lands when there are
people in need of love and understanding all around us. The words that come
from the depths of our hearts may give great comfort to others. Jesus has
told us that each of our smallest gestures of goodness are held in great
consideration in Heaven.


At this point I would like to say this is not a religious page.
I want to share my thoughts about SPIRITUALITY and COMMUNICATION with the hereafter
in the light of the ENORMOUS SPIRITUAL PROGRESS COMPLETED DURING THE LAST YEARS. Unfortunately there is not much diffusion in the Italian Web as in the Anglo-Saxon countries where there are many organizations that also study the mystery of life from a scientific point of view.. Enough for all, the famous Princeton University. You can also go to visit :
Doctor Melvin Morse's Website , (he's a Physician like me!) an American Pediatrician that has devoted much time to the study of the NDE of the children.Each one of you will be free to profess or not any Religion on these pages, Religions are a mean of reaching God and not a purpose of life, the important thing is that they accept only these TWO Commandments:

(1) Love your neighbor as yourself
(and therefore, LOVE ALSO YOURSELF!)

(2) Don't Judge Other People's Lives!

You will find some links and articles, unfortunately almost all in English ( for we Italians, naturally!).
I'll try to translate them to the best of my ability and offer a synthesis to each adjournment of this Website, depending mostly on your partecipation. This is a page of public letters to share our point of view. I have so many ideas in the cauldron, depending on how this page is received by the readers.
I would then like to constitute a FREE ASSOCIATION among all people that write me, explore the possibility of summer vacations to meet in a "real place" (how many of us don't take vacations after "our loss"?) for discussions and fellowship together.

This can all be done by e-mail, no taxes of registrations or forms.

If there are at least 50 of us, we could decide to invite and pay for Natalie's travel expenses, she would be happy to spend a few days with us, as well as she already did it!
Ah, but WHO is
Natalie? Go visit her Web site and read the history of my son, Nicola, stricken from cancer when he was only 3-1/2 years old and left us after three years of suffering. This tragedy has not all been in vain as it has pushed me to investigate the bigger mystery of life:

 LIFE BEYOND DEATH.

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